When a loved one passes, one of the many decisions needing to be made involves what headstone is going to mark his or her resting place; this is a final mark of what that person has been to you and to everyone else. The design and size of headstones and monuments varies widely so it can be difficult to choose one that fits the budget and the want. However, with a few considerations, you can find the perfect marker that fits your needs as well as gives you the features that you want.
Cemetery regulations
The first consideration when choosing a headstone for you love one needs to involve the cemetery regulations. There are different rules in every cemetery regarding the type of headstone that you can have installed—this will affect the size and shape of whatever headstone you choose. Also, some cemeteries offer installation services while in others you will have to take care of those arrangements yourself; you may need to adjust your budget for the fees that come with this.
Budget and materials
The price of headstones depends upon the shape, size, and the materials used. If you set a budget beforehand, you can look at what you can feasibly get before you find “The One” and decide you cannot afford it. Make considerations for the type of material as well; a marble or granite headstone may cost a little bit more than another material, but it will withstand weather better and last longer. It is never nice to come back to the marker and see it damaged by the weather.
Tell a story
Many headstone designs give you the opportunity to share something special about your loved one. While the elaborateness of a headstone can vary, the story you tell is still present. What do you want to have those who see the stone know about the person it is representing?
Choosing a headstone is never an easy task, though it does not have to be the most difficult. Emotions generally play the largest role in the decision, so it is good to have an idea as to what other factors need to be considered as well. If you have questions about what headstone to choose, speak to the local cemetery for recommendations or suggestions.
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